Hey Nina, I’m a huge fan and watch every episode on youtube! Your rants are hilarious! I would like some advice or a kick in the pants because I’m really struggling this holiday season with some insane antics from my ex-wife over our children and I’m devastated. I think it best to give you some back ground and then show you a conversation. This occurred this past Wednesday over txts My ex and I, who share joint legal custody, just got into a legal battle because she continually denies visitation and switches schedules, even after I disagree, for frivolous reasons. So two weeks ago during my visitation my daughter tells me that on my next visitation one of her friends has a birthday that she would like to attend, as a father I’m not going to deny her that request so I tell her that she and her mom can let me know what time so her mom can take her (it’s her step-dad’s niece’s party) so I can schedule her party around that because her birthday was at the beginning of this week. So I didn’t hear anything for a week and a half so I texted her mom to find out and here is that conversation Me: “hey Sissa asked me about one of her friend’s bday parties this weekend and I want her to be able to go so as soon as you can please let me know what the time frame is so I can plan her party and things around that thank you”. Mom: “Shayla’s party is Saturday at 4 to 6 & Laikyn’s Party is sun 4 to 6. From what Austyn and Laikyn told me I thought we were switching weekends because of Laikyn …
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Never negotiate with the other parent without a judge/lawyer. I went through hell with my ex about picking up the kids child support. I don’t bad mouth him or use the kids as pawns he’s just a selfish man and bitter we ain’t together. I say go to court becuz someone ain’t gonna hold up to the deal. Court and only court or you ll catch hell
Great advice. Document everything.
MuchLove I think you gave some great directions in reference to the path this father needs to take. Now…..for those of you on here being disrespect…you must be some lil young bitches. Like for real? You got the nerve to say she smoking and drinking..when u are more than likely “doing the most with the least”. And for the other bitch who’s calling MuchLove out…why the fuck you even watching or subscribing? Really? REALLY?
word.
Bye girl you drinking and smoking. Not my cup of tea!
Calling people fat and ugly is really rude. There is nothing wrong with her. God has created all of us in his own image so if u don’t have anything nice to say didn’t your mom teach you not to say anything at all. Grow up.
MUCHLOVE IS A FAT UGLY PIG!!!
The mom kept asking about what his plans was she obviously doesn’t realize it’s over nosey and.what mother would say take this up with the child instead of her she seems to be a bitter woman…… He needs to take her to court ain’t nobody got time for her and her BS….just messy
The mother seems to be one of them mothers who dont care if her child have contact with her father and dont really want the father to be around the child. From what I read in the letter it seems like that the mother CAN and WILL lie on the father. Document everything. You may have to get full custody of her.
From what I read, it seems like she had the daughter make the plans instead of the mother making the plans so that way the father can have his time with his daughter. I agree with some who said dont rely on a child going back and telling their mother things. YOU have to be the one who says something about it. Dont wait till the last minute to do stuff. Get it done while it is in progress.
Nina u r so Real that u got men askin u 4 advice u
I agree completely. You always know just what to say to people and let it be known why you feel this way.
WELL SAID. If you can’t work things out in a civil manner and be reasonable when changes arise, AND THEY WILL ARISE, then you map out some ground rules and schedule visitations in writing then hot tail it down to the courthouse. It’s a shame when a stranger has to tell you when and how to take care of your own children but sometimes it’s necessary.
He didn’t tell the age of the kids, which is key to a lot when it comes to communication. 3 things went wrong. 1.He relied on a CHILD to relay a message. 2.He waited a week & and half to follow up. 3. He sends a text. Both need to be adult enough to SPEAK TO EACH OTHER concerning schedules, changes & delays. Don’t wait until the last minute then depend on someone else to clean it up when it falls through because you sent a message by an 8 year old. And yes, kids will lie.
Smh this lady need to get her attitude together
Wow. I’m so glad I don’t have kids. On a side note, it’s very good to communicate via texts and email when you’re in the middle of a custody battle because it helps you document what was said and when. The dad might need a lawyer, so that he can force mom to stick to the schedule.
Say that!!!! Nothing but the truth!!
cont:Sometimes you may have to tell your child no, and explain the reason why. Ive been down this road, and after 5 years of foolishness on both our parts, we have finally been able to reach some mutuality with the situation.. Pray on it…..